This Chick At The Gym...

gtrokin330 wrote

i saw this cute guy at my gym the other day, i encountered him only to find out he sounds like a girl. there goes my interest of men in teh gym

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WTF... OP how old are you?? I hope you're 15 or younger.

CIGARGUY wrote

Use a little humor. Chicks love a guy that can make them laugh. Next time say something like, "Ok, if you insist on working out next to me everytime, I'm going to have to start charging my normal training fee." or, "Hey, since we're always gonna work out together, I might as well tell you my name is ______ so you know who you're working out with." Just keep it light. If she's receptive and easy to talk to from there, you'll know how to proceed. Otherwise, you can at least say hello and call her by name when you see her. Can't lose either way.

^^^ this

i don't normally go to the gym today, but i did and it was way past my normal time. anyway i get to the gym at 8pm its dark and i go to my trunk to get my gym bag.

as i was getting my bag, i hear a "hey" behind me. i look back and it was chelsea. i stated that it looked like she had a good work out which lead to her asking me if i just got there .

she unlocked her car and it was a white w204 c350. i complimented on her car and since it was cold and drizzling i asked if ill see her friday (taking gym off tom), she replied yea. told her ill see her then and drive safe and that was it.

anywho im not sure if i should keep bumping this thread ill see how far this will go. thanks guys for the advice this can get interesting. fuck eharmony and match.com when you have a e90post relationship

she is going to think you are gay if you dont hurry up

Should have at least attempted to fuck her sweaty ass in the back seat

I'm actually kinda interested in where this is going, like a TV show. This doesn't change anything though... still need pics.

At the gym, I would usually go with the "hey ma let me holler" line, then get an awkward look cuz im a skinny white kid rofl

Sounds like a good start. You can (and should) ask her out when you see her on Friday.

nice going breaking the barrier!
most guys don't have the balls to do that!

let us know how it goes.. and pics

CollinsE90 wrote

she is going to think you are gay if you dont hurry up

He's right. If you don't ask her out Friday, that is exactly what she is going to start thinking. I mean go ahead, geez, the worst that happens is she says no, so what.

CollinsE90 wrote

she is going to think you are gay if you dont hurry up

+10000000000000000000000000

Yea you better make a move soon cause if she feels for a second you're not interested she'll just move on.

why so soon, if she waited a month for just a hi, im sure she can wait a bit longer ? we'll see friday...

hl0m4n wrote

why so soon, if she waited a month for just a hi, im sure she can wait a bit longer ? we'll see friday...

If you do not ask her out Friday, she will go get laid at a party...girls that tend to approach you are doing it because they want to speed up the process...say "i havent had the courage the last times ive seen you, but would you like to hang out sometime?", that is easier than would you like to go on a date...a girl that is interested doesnt care what you guys do, as long as she is around you...once you make it that far, only a dumbass could screw it up

PS, if she is busy the day you use as the day you want both of you to go out, then let HER pick a date, just be quite and say "that sucks, we"ll here is my # give me a call when you arent busy", most likely this is when she will offer another day...if she doesnt start rescheduling then you lost her

Like I said. Treadmill friends. Hurry the fuck up man, just ask her what she's doing afterward for christ sakes.

I'm serious, how old are you OP?

LOL hahaha keep it comin romeo

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Yeah, I think you're doing it right... A little slow, but doing it right. So yeah, as others have said, the next logical thing to do is get a bite to eat and chat some more. It might seem really cheesy but if you're going to be forced to sit an hour and converse, have an idea of what you might talk about so you don't just stare at each other for an hour.

ok so i get to the gym and i don't see her so im like w/e. later on after my lift, running on the treadmill she unexpectadly shows out of nowhere.

so we say hi, how are you, & greet. at this time im speed walking on a 14 incline at 4 mph while she doing her normal 1 mph slow walk next to me (i feel such a winner at the gym talking to her ).

i had top chef on while i was walking and she mentions how good that dish on the tv looks. i replied and she continued by saying how bad her dinner was last night at some mexican restaurant. i asked what her favorite food was and to my surprise it was the same as mine, sushi.

we continued to talk but to sum things up, i ended up telling her i knew a kick ass sushi place and if she wanted to go sometime. she replied yea and i asked if tommorow was fine. she said sounds great and i asked her for her #. i was in such joy, i forgot i never bring my cell with me (just leave it in car). i asked if i can use her phone to call mine which she did. so now i got her # and she got mine and hopefully we on for this "date" tommorow .

grats.